The Stephen / Stephanie Syndrome

By Rev. Philippe SHOCK Matthews, B.Msc.

3rd Frequency Trauma Bonding and Capture Bonding (Stockholm Syndrome) Triggers 

In The Portraiture of Stockholm Syndrome: Cultural Dislocation in Phillis Wheatley’s Poetry Collection and Selected African American Texts, Emmanuel Adeniyi says, “One of the tropes that have often been glossed over in African American literature is the concept of Stockholm Syndrome. The syndrome emphasizes irrationality and abnormal psychological or mental disposition of Stockholm Syndrome sufferers towards individuals responsible for their pitiable conditions.”

Adeniyi examines the conception and its nexus with slavery and the use of religion (Christianity) as an ideological tool for the indoctrination or brainwashing of African slaves and their descendants in the United States of America. 

He argues that the syndrome, “Though conceived as a correlate of Freudian ego-defence mechanism, operates like a psychedelic or hallucinogenic drug which, according to Karl Marx, dulls the reasoning capacity and cerebration of the sufferers and prevents them from thinking rationally. Besides, it alters their perception of reality forcing them to accept abnormality as normality in a bid to create an escapist route for their fears, hurt feelings, and pent-up wounds.”

According to SimplyPsychology, defense mechanisms are psychological strategies that are unconsciously used to protect a person from anxiety arising from unacceptable thoughts or feelings.

In many of the non-denominational communities that exist today, 3^rd frequency coon/negro ministers will exhibit this Stockholm syndrome, defense mechanisms and use coded language to co-op/cosign with their 2nd frequency oppressors due to the overwhelming, unconscious racial battle fatigue, genetic and decontextualized trauma that has caused their vmPFC (Ventromedial Prefrontal Cortex) to malfunction and engage in the normalcy bias.

I refer to the 3rd frequency coon/negro male and female as the Stephen / Stephanie Syndrome. Below is a list I have compiled from my observations of this 3rd frequency mental health phenomenon and how and why we feel embarrassed and ashamed at feeling some kind of way about our unconscious cosign with 2nd frequency values.

3rd Frequency Negros Who Say…

We are all the same.

God created us all.

Namaste Namaste.

You are painting them with a large brush.

You are generalizing.

The Denial: 

All white / European people are not that way.

They aren’t all bad.

I simply don’t believe that…

I know that is not true.

What would Jesus do?

Where did you read that?

You are making me feel uncomfortable.

Are you trying to make me feel guilty or responsible?

You need to love more.

This is not a conversation I’m going to have with you right now.

What would love do?

Where did you learn that?

Who told you that?

You are being disrespectful.

I have also trained myself to identify the punt, redirect, and disconnect of 3rd frequency people. 1st frequency people need to tune their vibration to recognize their marginalization, minimization, leveling and positioning, condescending comments/statements:

Where are you getting your evidence or research from?

I don’t experience or have not experienced what you are talking about.

I will not listen to anything you are saying, you don’t know what you are talking about, you think you are smart, but you are not.

You don’t know enough about the subject.

I graduated from…

I studied with…

If you keep on doing what you’re doing, you’re going to keep on getting what you’re getting.

Why doesn’t so and so (another 3rd frequency person) feel the way you feel?

Come again???

I have a college degree, a doctorate in…

What do you know, you only have…

Come back when you know this / that is factual.

You don’t listen, you think you know it all.

Nobody can tell you anything.

I’m not trying to control you, but…

You think you know what you are talking about, but…

Why doesn’t so and so believe in what you are saying?

Nobody believes that.

Enlightened people don’t think that way.

How do you know?

Why do you think that?

Nobody else is saying that or believes that.

You are being divisive.

You are speaking in all or nothing terms? That’s not of God.

You are speaking from the ego.

Your ego is in the way.

You are angry because you failed in your life and you need to blame it on racism and white people.

You don’t get along with anyone.

You have an attitude problem.

You have not spiritually matured.

You have not risen above it.

It’s not about race / why do you keep bringing up race.

You are an unhappy person.

You refuse to see the good in all people.

The Redirect/Reverse/Project: 

You are so condescending, angry. You are racist and prejudiced.

You have not healed your trauma.

You are responsible for your own life.

You provoked them / their racist behavior or response.

Something inside of you that you have not resolved that keeps showing up in each incarnate.

Have you spoken to all white/ European people…?

I’ve known so and so for x amount of years, and they have never said, done or participated in anything racist

The Avoidance:

Let’s table this discussion for another time.

Let me get back with you on that.

I have a conference call/meeting/phone call.

I’ll talk to so and so (2nd frequency person) and get back with you.

The Condescending Intellectual Pissing Contest:

Have you read so and so?

Do you know about…

You need to read/know so and so before we can have this discussion.

I’ve never heard that before.

I don’t think you have your facts straight.

Where is your evidence?

Why can’t you answer my question?

You are very argumentative.

You are speaking too loud.

Why are you yelling?

I can’t talk to you in the angry state you are in right now.

You are overly aggressive.

I don’t feel comfortable.

You are being dismissive and condescending.

Why do you keep interrupting me?

Let me talk.

I can’t seem to get a word in edgewise.

You are ranting.

You have a personal problem with…

The Self-Blame Game:

So and so rose above / overcame racism why can’t you?

You need to practice forgiving.

You are holding too much anger inside.

You are the cause of your experience with racism.

You are attracting this to yourself.

The Hopeless/Helpless:

What can you do about it?

White people have always been that way.

They (2nd frequency) have always been like that.

That’s just the way it is.

Why is that stopping you?

You can’t change anything.

No one is listening to you.

What’s the point?

Change you then others will change toward you.

You are not making any sense.

Racism will always exist, just do better.

It is what it is.

You are always talking about this, give it a rest.

Let go and let god.

What do you stand to gain from all of this?

What are you looking for?

Do you need an apology from all white people?

You are the only one saying these things and feel this way.

Why can’t you just go along to get along?

You can’t change white people.

They (2nd frequency) are the way they are.

This was happening before you were born and will continue to happen when you transition.

You are not honoring/living the principles of metaphysics.

You are placing racism above god / jesus.

You are giving this more power than it is worth.

Nothing has power over you, let it go and let god/rise above it.

You must move to a place in your mind where racism doesn’t exist.

You’re bigger and more spiritual than racism, right???

What are you talking about?

This is just a brief summation of the Mental Illness of 3rd Frequency People. The coon/negro lives by the code: you have to work twice as hard to get half of what 2nd frequency people have. If I go along to get along, maybe I will be able to live amongst them (2nd frequency) and become less a target and go undetected. So, I don’t use words of Black Empowerment or Black Supremacy, which will trigger white fragility and may compromise my job security, lifestyle, and family. This mental illness mindset is at the core of the 3rd frequency of collective consciousness.

If you get a good education…

The negro will believe that simply building character, skill, and ability will keep them safe and give them a fighting chance to go undetected by certain levels of white supremacy that the 4th frequency nigga struggles with the most. Most of the Black men/women who have been murdered by the police were considered by 3rd frequency coon/negros as 4th frequency niggas and that being a good negro will absolve them from such domestic terror. 

The 3rd frequency person learns through the indoctrination of christianity to turn the other cheek, to forgive and forget.

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